It just may be time to reset the alarm on your dating life. Since we don’t come with factory settings, it’s not as simple as Control. Alt. Delete.

And it’s common knowledge that New Year’s resolutions last…. well, not long. The majority of people think about them---but don’t actually write them down and actively pursue them. If they do, they’ve gone to the wayside in a few weeks statistically.

So, here’s some ideas to think about as you review 2023 and look forward to 2024:

1. High Yield Tasks

Elon Musk knows how to prioritize his time and energy on the tasks that have the most impact on his goals. He uses the Pareto Principle to identify the 20% of tasks that generate 80% of the results. Elon fan or not, this guy gets things done. I teach my clients this method---and yes, while it’s not the same as the P Principle, we eliminate 80% of the time you spend on sites/apps by working smarter and using the online dating system to maximize results, instead of frustration.

2. Half in/Half out

Not all the way committed to dating? I’ll tell you right now---don’t waste your time. (or your money with me).

3. Get off the fence

Just listen to Taylor Swift: “Being fearless isn’t being 100% not fearful; it’s being terrified but you jump anyway”.

4. Look in the mirror

Not for a Botox check. Dating success begins and ends with you. (Yep, I can give you help but it’s going to be so much about your attitude to jump into my 65% success column).

5. Share your goals with others

It’ll make you accountable. Richard Branson is a huge advocate of this---and just look at what this guy has accomplished---while having a blast! A good dating coach helps tremendously with this.